Dating women with emotional problems
• If you feel the urge to do something about this situation immediately, the best thing you can do instantly is to approach her with wide arms and whip out the hair stroking weapon.
Then you can try to resolve the problem using the techniques described above.
Following these steps you can deal with such sort of situation.
• When your wife/girlfriend is upset or is crying or arguing with you perhaps you might have not attended her, let her down, had crush her soul or disappointed her then put on your most empathetic face whilst stroking her hair, and ask with as much concern in your voice as you possibly rustle up, “Oh my dear, why you are so upset?
For thousands of years there have always been issues when it comes to understanding the opposite sex.
It is a widespread belief that women are guided by their emotions rather than rational thinking.
When it seems like she is finished talking, tell her what you think she has just said to you using your own words which may seem superfluous but it will assure her that you really did listen to her and absorbed what she said. Men don’t understand that blowing a woman off when she’s upset makes the whole thing last longer and she’ll resent them for it and resentment builds up over time, which gradually diminishes the relationship.
• After assuring your presence for her the next step is to listen to her. This is what we call “reflective listening.” But don’t interrupt her.
Don’t just listen and vacantly stare at her but also say the words, “So then what happened? Don’t cross your arms or act fidgety or act like you can’t wait to get away.
If so, you’re probably involved with an emotionally obnoxious woman.
This is highly stressful because it also requires you to be hyper-vigilant and in a constant state of defense for incoming attacks.
• The most important thing to mention here is never call your wife/girlfriend “A Psycho”.